Marriage Myths Part 2: Passion, Faith & Joy

By Anthony Braswell & Shannen Fields-Braswell

Marriage myths are everywhere, from movies to advice from well-meaning friends. These myths shape expectations and can lead to disappointment.

In Marriage Myths – Part 2 of The Uncover Marriage Podcast, we tackle the next set of myths and share practical ways to grow passion, deepen intimacy, and strengthen your marriage with Jesus at the center.

Marriage Myth #6: Passion Fades with Age

Romance doesn’t have to die after the honeymoon phase. Intimacy can deepen and become richer over time.

How to Keep Love Growing:

• Pursue each other intentionally every day.
• Celebrate consistency, not just grand gestures.
• Never put your marriage on cruise control.

Marriage Myth #7: Putting Jesus First Will Automatically Make Marriage Easy

Faith strengthens marriage, but it doesn’t make it effortless. Challenges will come, but God equips you to endure and grow through them.

• Put on the full armor of God daily (Ephesians 6)
• Love big, give grace, and forgive intentionally
• Trust God’s presence even when life gets messy

Marriage Myth #8: Love Should Feel Effortless All the Time

Feelings are powerful but fleeting. Love is a choice, not just an emotion. Lean on Jesus to love consistently, gracefully, and joyfully, even in hard seasons.

Practical Tips for a Thriving Marriage

• Daily Connection: Hold hands, take walks, share quiet conversations.
• Godly Examples: Learn from couples who reflect faith-based love.
• Speak Life: Lift up your spouse daily.
• Embrace Joy: Choose laughter and gratitude, even during challenges.

The Big Truth: Marriage Myths vs. God’s Design

Marriage isn’t about perfection, it’s about pursuit. Root your love in Jesus, communicate openly, and give yourself fully. Celebrate differences, build intimacy, and embrace covenant love.

Bible Reading Plan: Uncovering God’s Design for Marriage (Part 2)

• Day 1 – Joy in the Hard – Philippians 4:4-7
• Day 2 – Armor of God – Ephesians 6:10-18
• Day 3 – Forgiveness and Grace – Colossians 3:12-14

Reflect daily, pray together, and put God’s design into practice.

Final Thought

Your marriage can be vibrant, joyful, and unshakable. Myths will try to steal your peace, but truth grounded in Jesus builds a foundation that lasts a lifetime.

Choose each other daily. Speak life. Pursue intimacy. Celebrate differences. And let God’s love guide every step.